There are
five stages to overcome sufferings in life. The first stage of the
five stages is denial. At first man denies the fact that the person has moved
away from his or her life. In case of failure, people deny the fact of the
whole failure. In other words, in most cases people can not take this fact that
they failed.
This denial
is not only in the face but also in the mind, he wants to believe it. Although
he understands that the distance is being created, he wishes to believe with
passion, this distance is temporary, one day all will be alright. Although he
fails to understand, he wants to think forcibly that this failure is temporary
and it will be all right soon.
In this stage
people can understand the denial and there is no profit to deny. The incident
is really happening. He really failed in this particular matter. He's lost the
man. At this moment he becomes very angry. That step has been called Anger.
At this time
people feel angry at the person leaving him, feeling angry. This anger comes
from rigorous behaviour, arguments, hitting tendency. The other side is either
severely hit or completely ignored. Whenever there is a problem in the failure
of some work, most people are angry at the work that comes in the rage. Many
people are angry with those people who work with them to do his job.
Since the
work had ended and the results did not come well, so there is no special gain
by rigors. And when the work is done, do you blame if the chance comes back? So
this phase of rage ends one day.
One day when
people see that their anger is not working. Nobody is able to see the
undercurrent of their rage, and then it comes in bargaining tendency. It's
called bargaining stage. People at this stage want to negotiate with the other
side, but with some concessions, the other side wants to come back. If there is
a temporary solution, after few days he gets annoyed with the deductions given
by him, and he seems to have deceived him.
The
feeling of being lost is naturally quite deep in the mind of the lost people.
At one stage,
the man gives up. Depression comes at this stage. Depressed people understand
only what is depression. Not only about the relationship that is being
discussed this time but also people are indifferent to many more. He can not
find any meaning in his life and his work.
During the
step each person has different types of complexities. Someone has less, some
has more. But the fourth step or depression that lasts most in the lives of
people. If you get out of it, you can get out of this flowchart. Those who can
not, we find themselves committing suicide because of failure in love or
in any work.
This step is
called depression or sadness which is long lasting even though it is
possible to overcome from this situation with his own efforts and with the help
of his closed one. However, many people go to chronic depression. If there is
no expert help on time, the person will be subjected to intense deliberations
at any time. That is why we have to learn how to overcome pain and
suffering.
Fifth, when
the last step of the depression is over, people accept at one point. He accepts
that people can go away from life and the sooner they can cope the better. He
admits that failure will come and he will accept this failure as quickly as
possible and learn from it as much as he can to become successful. This step is
called Acceptance. This accusation comes to this stage and does not have much
trouble as before, but if you remember or remind me a little bit!
Anyway, to
overcome any difficulty, agony, loss and trouble people have to undergo these
five steps. It's a sort of process. The negativity in you is shivering. If
there is a step left then there is a possibility of losing the balance. After
going through all the steps, we see the golden period.
